Monday, January 1, 2007

RESOLVERE

Wow, was that the holidays just flying by?  What an amazing couple of weeks, both for me personally and the world at large.   It seems like I blinked and now it is 2007.  It was a nice Christmas, especially nice for Brian.  I took two weeks off, like I always do and fully enjoyed every busy day.

Now we are at the New Year and the question of resolutions abounds.  I rather look at resolutions as "adding" instead of "removing".  So what kind of resolutions do I have for 2007?  I think they should go something like...

Resolution number one:  For Christmas, my mother gave me the softest, puffiest, like-a-cloud blue robe and matching blue Ugg slippers.  I resolve to spend more time enjoying being wrapped in the comfort of all things soft.  I resolve to wear my Uggs wherever I feel.  Christmas day, I wore them to see the movie, The Pursuit of Happiness with Brian.  He wore his slippers ... there is nothing like seeing a movie in your slippers.  There is nothing like eating and drinking in a robe... just ask Hugh Hefner...

Resolution number two:  I resolve to walk Boonie more.  We have a great time on our walks and now that I have a IPod with all my dance music, it makes the walks one long nightclub for the senses.  I also resolve to dance around my living room with my IPod in 2007.  I could do this in my Uggs and robe... ah the visuals...

Resolution number three:  Brian and I attended Handle's Sing Along Messiah over Christmas break.  We ended up on a local TV program.  I sang so hard that I lost my voice the next day.  It was the first time Brian was able to see me read music and sing as a tenor.  All the years I have talked about when I sang in a local choir, he was finally able to see and hear me. He was shocked.  I resolve to take Brian to more plays, musicals and live events.  We had a great time, and one of the angel girls tried to flirt with him.  He confessed she was cute, but alas was (ugh) just a "girl".  I think I should captivate on this attitude now before he begins to decide girls are the bomb...

Resolution number four: My brother fixed Christmas dinner and spoiled Brian.  To my shock, he is a good cook.  I resolve to spend more time with my brother ... besides he has this great swimming pool and killer washers and dryers.  I can do laundry and swim laps.  His wine collection isn't shabby either... HEY! I could take my robe and Uggs...

Resolution number five:  I resolve to see Elisabet more.  2006 sucked without my constant cheerleader in the game of life.

Resolution number six:  Do more of the things I love - like writing, gardening and painting.  There is nothing like giving part of yourself to the world to make you feel happy and alive.  Maybe I will leave anonymous love notes to the world wherever I go...

Resolution number seven:  Write more to my dad's surviving sisters and get them to tell more of the Hughes family history so I have it in print.  They have been researching for years and have some amazing stories about my grandfather.  My Aunt Colleen says she traced us back to our connection to Howard Robard Hughes Sr and Jr (yes, THAT Howard Hughes) although my dad always swore we were not related to the man.  But some of my exs might say, "I can see her locked away in a room, with long nails and paranoid fantasies ... must run in the family...” Hah, I say, its just being a crazy redhead like we all are...

Being a Hughes is only secondary.

Although I am eyeing this robe and slippers thing...

Resolution number eight:  I resolve not to sob when Brian graduates from 6th grade.... or when he starts middle school in the fall.

And mostly I resolve to be grateful for every single day, good or bad, up or down.  And know, other people's opinions of me and my life, are none of my business.

Until next time-

C

"All my children have spoken for themselves since they first learned to speak, and not always with my advance approval, and I expect that to continue in the future." Gerald Ford. 

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